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FRIENDS, THAT’S A HEAD-SCRATCHER?
Friends, everybody has them, the thing is, what kind of friends are they.
It’s clear to me that there are all types, maybe too many to name, but the ones that come off the top of my head are the real friends, the so-called friends, the convenient friends, the loyal ones, the sometimes friend, but the most common is the backstabbing friends.
These friends will stab you in the back, then ask why are you bleeding? I heard it’s better to have an enemy who slaps you in the face than a friend who stabs you in the back.
People will talk behind your back; when they can’t reach your level when they don’t have what you have when they try to copy your lifestyle, but can’t. Hate, Jealousy, and Envy. Real friends will always have your back even at times when you tell them, No Thank you, I don’t need any help!
Just know everybody isn’t your friend, and just because they hang around and laugh with you doesn’t mean they even like you. A lot of people will pretend to be your friend, as long as a real-life threating situation doesn’t expose them in a moment of truth.
We must be careful about the information we trust our so-called friends with. If we expose our weaknesses to the wrong people, we may find that that’s just what some have been waiting for to use against us.
Sometimes I find myself enjoying some so-called friends because I enjoy listening to the lies they tell when I know the truth. They are So Stupid with their heads held high in the air over some nonsense.
When it comes to haters, I discovered that most of them sleep better at night when they know you’re not. As for me, I’d rather eat crumbs with bums than eat steak with snakes.
There is nothing better than a loyal friend; that is if that friend doesn’t over-step your boundaries. If you are looking for a do or die, friend, that’s not me. If I have to die it won’t be because I betrayed my personal convictions or morals for your sake. I will stand with you in righteousness, only.
Some friends are evil.
Evil friends are useless friends. Evil deeds do not prosper, and they become so infectious that they destroy the very life of those around them. It may be time to rethink your friendship, better yet, Get Out Now.
My personal favorite is the Best Friend. Yes, it’s alright to have more than one best friend, each brings something valuable to the table.
Did you know a best friend is a real reflection of your character and personality, these friends can take you to great heights, and they are the ones you can share your feelings, thoughts, success, secrets, hopes, and dreams, coupled with your failures.
I think during one’s lifetime we will experience all types of friends, silly ones. pretend ones, even the standoffish ones, but no matter what kind of friend they are, it’s your choice, choose wisely your life may depend on it.
The best way I found to pick the cream of the crop when it comes to friends is to Never contract friendship with a man that is not better than thyself. Confucius
And just so you know, young people, your parents notice your fake friends before you do. Trust and believe that.
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