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FRIENDS, THAT’S A HEAD-SCRATCHER?

Friends, everybody has them, the thing is, what kind of friends are they.

It’s clear to me that there are all types, maybe too many to name, but the ones that come off the top of my head are the real friends, the so-called friends, the convenient friends, the loyal ones, the sometimes friend, but the most common is the backstabbing friends.

These friends will stab you in the back, then ask why are you bleeding?  I heard it’s better to have an enemy who slaps you in the face than a friend who stabs you in the back.

People will talk behind your back; when they can’t reach your level when they don’t have what you have when they try to copy your lifestyle, but can’t.  Hate, Jealousy, and Envy.  Real friends will always have your back even at times when you tell them, No Thank you, I don’t need any help! 

Just know everybody isn’t your friend, and just because they hang around and laugh with you doesn’t mean they even like you.  A lot of people will pretend to be your friend, as long as a real-life threating situation doesn’t expose them in a moment of truth.

We must be careful about the information we trust our so-called friends with.  If we expose our weaknesses to the wrong people, we may find that that’s just what some have been waiting for to use against us.

Sometimes I find myself enjoying some so-called friends because I enjoy listening to the lies they tell when I know the truth. They are So Stupid with their heads held high in the air over some nonsense.

When it comes to haters, I discovered that most of them sleep better at night when they know you’re not.  As for me, I’d rather eat crumbs with bums than eat steak with snakes.

There is nothing better than a loyal friend; that is if that friend doesn’t over-step your boundaries.  If you are looking for a do or die, friend, that’s not me.  If I have to die it won’t be because I betrayed my personal convictions or morals for your sake.  I will stand with you in righteousness, only. 

Some friends are evil.

Evil friends are useless friends.  Evil deeds do not prosper, and they become so infectious that they destroy the very life of those around them.  It may be time to rethink your friendship, better yet, Get Out Now.

My personal favorite is the Best Friend.  Yes, it’s alright to have more than one best friend, each brings something valuable to the table.

Did you know a best friend is a real reflection of your character and personality, these friends can take you to great heights, and they are the ones you can share your feelings, thoughts, success, secrets, hopes, and dreams, coupled with your failures.

I think during one’s lifetime we will experience all types of friends, silly ones. pretend ones, even the standoffish ones, but no matter what kind of friend they are, it’s your choice, choose wisely your life may depend on it.

The best way I found to pick the cream of the crop when it comes to friends is to Never contract friendship with a man that is not better than thyself.  Confucius

And just so you know, young people, your parents notice your fake friends before you do.  Trust and believe that.

It’s Something to Think About!

Jesus is Lord!

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LIES?

People don’t care if you’re telling them the truth or if you’re telling them a lie, as long as they’re entertained by it. Tom Waits

Did you know the most common lie is when one lies to himself?  But with so much Fake News becoming the Norm, I am still not ready to lie just because others may be…

What lies inside all of us will be revealed simply because No lie ever reaches old age plus I heard a lie is just the Truth in Masquerade.

Are you caught up in a Web of Lies simply because you feel a need to protect those you are loyal too?

Why do we give a positive response to those who are constantly testing our morals with their flawed plans and unreasonable requests?  These actions should be seen as a warning sign that some friendships may be onesided?

Most times, when worrying about what our peers will say or think, it may prohibit us from living our Best Life.

Did you know, Only enemies speak the truth, friends, and lovers lie endlessly, caught in a Web of Duty?  Steven King

I know everyone is not capable of making good decisions, and for a variety of reasons, but for those who can, may I suggest you release your decision-making powers to go forth with confidence, and more…

To be successful, we must gather all available information, while taking into consideration all decisions made without the facts are suicidal.

Trust me, if you refuse to, or can’t make your own decisions, someone will make them for you.  So, the worst thing you can do is to let that happen.  For me, it’s like taking away our right to pick and chose.

We must build confidence in ourselves while making sure we are comfortable with the decisions we do make.

Did you know the more we take control of our own destiny, the better we will become at self-preservation?

In my opinion, if you earned your way to the top without lies and other unsavory means, you may be my type of person, especially if your one of those that would protect all while relying on healthy work habits coupled with a desire to learn.  This includes incorporating a competitive nature, creative ideas, morals and more.

Let’s say you have a friend that needs your support to tell a lie or need help with any other wrongdoings, and that wrongdoing is a detriment to others, it may be time to reconsider your friend and their intentions.

Most can decern right from wrong and a willingness to do what is right, all we have to do is do it.

So, if a friend or anyone asks you to tell a little lie for them, remember you will lose a little of yourself every time you do the Devils work, while the architects of such lies bask in of your weakness.  The choice is yours, make the right decision.. after all, it is your life.

Remember, Jesus is Lord.

It’s Something to Think About!

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