A complaint is an expression of pain, discontent, regret, and or grief. fault-finding is in a league of its own, and it has also registered a complaint.
Fault has a variety of definitions. One is to confess a misdeed, like breaking into someones home. A mistake; an example could be a mishap in addition or subtraction. Taking responsibility; “I did It.” Fault is also a cop-out; “It was not my fault.”
Because of Fault you could become a failure. The fault is to fail at something. A blunder, err.
A fault is a fracture in the Earth’s core, as well as a mistake at tennis, handball, and others. (If the ball doesn’t clear the net on a serve, it is called a fault.) These Fault’s, and some I cannot name are not the fault’s I want to write about.
It’s hard enough in this World, and no one I know of, is in need of a Nit-Picking Faultfinder. A person that can find Fault even, in God. Sometimes we go too far.
Somehow the message about, “No one is Perfect,” must have gotten lost. Have you heard that before, or is it only me? There is no need to go hunting for fault, (Trouble) you can expect to find it everywhere. DUD!
I think some of us have the mentality of a biting fly, annoying everyone around the picnic table. But that’s what I get for thinking. “Study long, and you study wrong.” Let’s call it what it is, shear ignorance.
There is a way to do everything. But more importantly, with this subject, it is the intent that matters. These are some of the things that help make us who we are;
A Helpful person or a Nit-Picking, Faultfinders?
No matter how hard we try, there are always the ones who find fault in most things, and the very ones to do the least. I take that back, fault-finders are not lazy about complaining. This type of thinking has to be a total waste of time, and completely worthless. This person seeks out minor imperfections, looking for flaws, to make it known to all in a direct attack on others declaring; “You are not Perfect.”
Sometimes, a message like this one is lost because of a subject too close to home. “A hit dog will holler.”
Pride and Envy has a lot to do with hateful things, and it has the ability to stop progress. Dipping and dabbing in the wrong thought processes, conjuring up Evil, Hate, Jealousy, sometimes Rage.
You should ask yourself why you have those feelings, if you haven’t already? There are all types of solutions available. But, if it is your Spirit that’s troubling you, there is Christ.
“The I’s were not dotted, the T’s is not crossed,” a misspelled word. Pointing out errors. Trying to produce a failure, instead of gaining knowledge or a different prospective on life, and Jesus Christ. But no, in spite of ones hard work; Faultfinders are busy picking at our every effort, with pettiness. Smiling in our faces, while looking thru the eyes of hate, having nothing healthy to say, do, or contribute.
I Know; “been there, done that.” I have nitpicked, and I Have been nitpicked.
Correcting the wrongs is what needs to be diligently sought after, but of course this never enter ones mind, it’s; “Too much like right.”
It is unimaginable to me, why someones goals, would be a desire to make others less? Having no value or consideration to a small notion, that if instead of looking for fault, to look for a solution. Never realizing these may be the stepping-stones in life, (Opportunity.) that encourages a positive direction, leading to success, and happiness.
The Lord knows I have faults. So some of my friends point them out because they Love Me, or they want to see me succeed, others have compassion for our faults, and some just want to be helpful. “No reason.”
THIS IS HEALTHY NIT-PICKING, FAULTFINDING, this is the type we need more of. Take into consideration, some don’t know this concept; they are only doing what they have been taught, or have heard. “Some are only as good as their teachers; there are those who can’t help it.”
IT IS STILL FAULT. “Ignorance of the Law is no Excuse.”
Too much attention is paid to someone else’s fault, and not enough to our own. Not all share in this sentiment, instead of trying to be helpful, precious time is spent finding creative ways to wreak havoc. There is no doubt that some of the pressure is being slung at the ones trying to upgrade themselves and others, in ‘THUS SAID THE LORD.’
Change your ways by turning your back on the destruction of any type, putting your best foot forward, following in Jesus’ footprints. If you choose this path you may find it hard to find fault under every stone.
Help your fellow-man, in a positive manner. Instead of pointing out every nit-picking thing you can find under the sun. Be a helpmate, if not there could be other problems such as; resentment, lack of confidence, etc.
It is amazing how we can find Fault in everyone except ourselves. This could be the reason some are the fault finders. Faultfinder or Not, DO IT YOURSELF, THAT WAY YOU KNOW IT WILL BE PERFECT.
IT’S SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT.
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